FRANK or "frankie"

This guy moves around a lot. He has been in Virginia, has family in NC. I think he is now in Maine. Re-connected online after many years had passed. "fell in love" again with him by emails and phone calls. Offered money for bus ticket to come home to NC and move in with me. After this is was one constant thing after another. Roommates took money i sent. He was scared to come back. Fed me every possible line of bullshit he could. I now know better but, at the time i thought he was the "one". Came here and needed credit card to help get him tools and stuff to get a job. Maxed out my credit card in 3 months to over $7000.
He supposedly left town to work at a job and was to return in two weeks. One thing after another kept happening. Got stranded again, supposedly. Sent him money to get back home again. He had to stop and see his dying mother before he came back to NC. I had no clue he had spent this much money on credit cards until months later. I am now in deep shit because of this. I know i am not the only one he has done this too. I knew him many years ago and thought he had changed. Please girls if this sounds familiar, i would love to hear from others he has done this too. He will be working under the table. He is wanted for child support in Virginia. He is so freaking charming. He will meet your family and shake their hands, look them in the eyes. He was finally "happy" after so many years of misery.
I do not want t give his name on here because if possible he will retaliate. If u think we r talking about the same guy, we can switch info then. Please lets stop assholes like this!!