Steve Benson Taylor
Emotional
Albany, NY, New York
Met him on BP. Said his name was Steve Taylor and was using a pic of a very handsome%uy from the USA. He said that he was a God fearing man, looking for a good woman. He claimed that he was divorced with one child, a girl named Stephanie, who is 8 years old. I fell for him, because i was so attracted to the guy in the photo and the nice romantic messages he sent everyday. He even sent me really nice music videos (Utube) each morning that made me feel so special. We talked everyday via Yahoo messenger and on the phone. His number is 001 5187726387. Of course i was his perfect woman and the way he described himself, i believed he could have been my perfect mate as well. There was always something keeping me from falling 100% because i kept on asking him for 'normal' pics, which he couldnt provide. I asked for a pic of him shirtless cuz he said he had a six pack and i wanted to see it. Naturally, he couldn't produce that as well as family pic with his child and mother in them. I knew he was lying. When he called me, i immediately was turned off by his accent. He had a very strong african accent and i knew he wasn't honest, but still gave him the benefit of the doubt. He said he was Haitian by the way. I put out a tweet asking if Hatians sound like Africans. He messaged me the next morning to ask why i had done that. i told him that i didnt know anything about Haitians and wanted to know if this was true. We ended up moving on fro that conversation. He told me about his father being wealthy, divorced his mum and left nothing for him after he died. Said his 'step mother' didnt want him to have anything. He said that he had sole custody of his 8 yr old daughter, who lived with his mum and he sees her at the weekend.
He never got around to asking me for money, but i knew it wouldnt have been long. After i found out he had scammed another blackplanet user, i made a post on scambook and said that i was going to reverse the shoes, and ask him for some money. I knew 100% that he couldn't send me any money because everything about him was fake. I told him i needed 190 to pay a bill by friday. He said that he was chasing his father's lawyer to see the will. I knew he was going to come up with some story, and waited to bust him. I found the pic of the sexy model he was using on ModelMayhem.com. The guy's name is Chris Gaddy and he is sexy as heck! That's who i fell in love with. I wasn't angry once i'd discovered i was right, instead, i laughed. My children told me to let him know that i knew, cuz apart of me wanted to continue the game to see how far this dude was really willing to go, but i decided that i wasnt going to waste my time with scum like him. I sent him an email with the link to the models photos and told him about the other woman he scammed 5000usd out of when he came on yahoo chat.
Immediately, he got upset and started the name calling. I was called a prostitute, bitch etc, which i couldn't stop laughing at. He was the liar, cheater and scammer - yet i was all of those things he is.
I told him that i was always honest with him from the jump, now he's mad at me? I found it hilarious, but my children didn't appreciate the name calling and made sure he knew it.
I decided to send one final email to him this morning, so that i can close this crap and move on with my life. Honestly, It felt good for a while, talking to someone who i thought was genuine. I guess i wanted him to be that guy. It hurt me a little in the night, because i thought i'd finally found someone true. Its a mess, when you want to find love and happiness, but the sensible side of me just wasnt going to let me make such a terrible mistake. I know i deserve 10 x better than scum like him. I hope other women are smart as i was to do their research. Keep researching, and searching until you find something. If someone exists, especially in Eu/USA then you should find something valid on them.
BP id: http://www.blackplanet.com/passionatema4288/